Hearing loss in older adults: how to help a parent
Your father turns the TV up, your mother asks people to repeat on the phone. With age, hearing drops for many people, so slowly they do not notice. Here is how to spot it and talk about it.
Presbycusis, a gradual loss
Presbycusis is age-related hearing loss. It first affects high-pitched sounds: consonants, children’s and women’s voices. So you hear that someone is speaking without quite understanding what they say.
Signs to look for in a parent
They turn up the TV or radio
They often ask people to repeat, especially when several people talk
They avoid family meals or outings, and seem withdrawn
Their answers miss the point, or they say "people don’t speak clearly"
The phone has become difficult
Why not to wait
Untreated hearing loss isolates people: they join in conversations less and go out less. The longer you wait, the harder it is to adapt to a device, because the brain loses the habit of certain sounds. Our page on hearing loss covers the signs and causes.
How to raise it, and come together
Talk about situations rather than age: "you struggle on the phone" rather than "you’re going deaf". Suggest a simple online hearing test to do together, then a free hearing assessment at the centre, with no commitment.
At the centre in Les Princesses, relatives are welcome. It is even advisable: two people remember explanations better, and you can describe everyday situations.
As soon as a sign appears, at any age. After 60, a check every two years is a good habit, like for eyesight.
My parent refuses to wear a hearing aid. What can I do?
Don’t force it. Start with the assessment, which commits them to nothing. Today’s devices are very discreet, and a trial in everyday life often convinces better than any argument.
How much does a hearing aid cost for an older person?
The price depends on the technology level, not age: per device, Essential from MAD 5,000, Comfort MAD 7,000 to 12,000, Premium from MAD 14,000. See the price list.